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I just went back to NYC for a wedding the other weekend, which was wonderful.
But as I changed into my wedding attire in a midtown Starbucks bathroom that smelled of urine,
I thought,
I don't really miss living in the city.
I loved it when I did,
and sometimes I get nostalgic,
and I certainly miss my people there.
But when it comes down to it,
I'm more Vermont than New York.
In light of the recent anniversary of 9/11,
Forbes ran an article called
"Fifty Important Lessons New York City Taught Me".
I liked some of them,
and would also add that living in NY is great training for working on a psych unit.
Here are my favorites:
1) Walk
Manhattan’s density encourages it (as do expensive cab fares), but
wherever you are, if you have the time, find an excuse to put feet to
pavement.
3) What We Crave
Whatever shape the economy’s in, millions of people continue to pay an absurd premium to toil and escape in New York City. That’s because deep down—more than any specific satisfaction or vice—we all crave
possibility. In that sense, NYC might be the world’s greatest brand: It makes you feel (goofy as it sounds) like anything can happen.
8) Find A Role Model
Teachers provide tools, and mentors offer support, but role models set
targets. Good luck without one—and that goes for teenagers and business owners.
13) Heroes Are Everywhere
Everyone in my apartment building who had left for work on 9/11 prior
to the attacks wasn’t allowed home for 10 days during the evacuation.
Meanwhile, our then-superintendent slept in the lobby the very first
night to make sure all the pets—32 floors worth—had enough to eat.
You’re a hero, Gus.
14) You Can Only Control What You Do
That one’s bigger than the five boroughs combined.
22) Chat Up A Cabbie
A cab ride is an opportunity to get cheated (perhaps), to get carsick
(likely, depending on the time of day), and to learn something
(always). Just don’t take the dude’s stock tips.
26) Have A Ritual (Part 1)
Sunday morning at Petite Abeille, in Tribeca, with a Belgian waffle, a pool-sized latte and back issues of the
New Yorker.
30) Be Alone
Not all the time—just long enough to hear yourself.
31) What It Takes
Talent gets you invited to camp; determination gets you on the team;
teamwork gets you on the field; confidence gets you on the starting
unit; love for the game keeps you there. And too many sports metaphors
get you smacked in the face.
32) If You Present A Problem, Present A Solution
Otherwise you’re just a whiner, and no one likes a whiner.
39) Ask For What You Want
“No” is a mild cut. Regret is a cancer.
41) Always Ask: “And Then What?”
The answer might surprise you.
45) Catch Up With Clifton
Every weekday morning for nearly 10 years, a short, wiry gentleman
with a Caribbean accent, grey hair, cherubic smile and kind heart camped
out with a newspaper at the south exit of the Rector Street subway
stop, three blocks from Ground Zero. I hope you’re well, Mr. C.
50) Every Day Is New
In 14 years, I rarely needed a reminder. And still don’t.
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I love short trips to New York; to me it is the finest three-day town on earth.
- James Cameron
